Signs of desperate online daters

Desperately dating people are really longing for compliments

In fact, encouragement and approval is what almost all the desperate daters usually need at their every turn. Such people simply fail to feel good about themselves and so they tend to become really good at creating compliments (about themselves) just out of thin air. Moreover, instead of living a full life, they use online dating via free dating sites and self-deprecation as their most common strategies. “My schedule for today lists a six-hour self-accusatory depression” – that was written by Philip K. Dick about such people in particular.

So, it goes without saying that such an attitude can be truly exhausting. Even if you feel like you are ready to tell your dating partner enough encouraging things in order to turn him or her into a self-assured person, remember that we have warned you. Everlasting desperation and self-humiliation of some people can be too much for your skills – a real problem that only a qualified analyst could deal with.

Desperate daters are clingy

Besides their tendency to instant heart-searching, one of the most characteristic features of desperate daters is their clinginess. Being one of the basic strategies in human behavior, it shows and proves that those things we consider to be abundant receive less of our attention. And it can also happen just the other way round when the things that we think are little and valuable get much of the undeserved attention. It might make a lot of sense somewhere else, under some other circumstances, but not in case with establishing long-term relationships.

The main point is that desperate people are simply afraid of being left alone one more time. That is why they use to be so clingy.

Desperate people use to drop friends very often

Well, let’s try to think the way that desperate people use to think. So, if you are really longing for some serious, long-term relationship, then nothing has the right to stand in your way, doesn’t it? Even your friends who also love you and will probably forgive you anything fall under that category as well. Such is the perverted logic of their desperate minds.

And one of the main problems is that dating someone who puts his or her entire life on hold for you… Well, let’s be honest – that is a bit strange, uncomfortable and if not to say creepy thing, don’t you find? At least no one would like to have someone like adoring fan nearby instead of a caring and romantic partner, don’t you think?