Tips for dating a black woman

Made up your mind to sign up for one of the dating sites for black people in order to feel and taste all the pleasures of interracial dating? But are you sure that, when it comes to dating in real life, you will be able to avoid at least half of the typical pitfalls connected with dating black women? Here are a few tips that we hope will be of some help for you.

Don’t number one

Never ever try to tell her that she is the first black woman whom you felt connection with or dated or anything like that unless she is the first to ask you about that. We understand that you want to make you feel special, but, well, this is the wrong way to do that. Mentioning race isn’t a proper topic for discussion – actually, this concerns women of any ethnicity. At the best case, she will feel like you are interested in dating with her simply because of her race – and that can be quite an awkward feeling, to put it clearly.

Don’t number two

Or a common case of pretending better than you are or someone that you are not. In the particular case of dating a black woman that means acting as a black person. Stop doing that immediately, if you are trying. Don’t even think about showing off, acting or talking like a black person. Believe it or not but that will sound funny if not offensive or insulting in some situations. Just remember that you must remain yourself under any circumstances – women in general and most black girls in particular usually appreciate sincerity and openness rather than your strained trying to be “better” than you actually are. One more thing to be considered here – be mindful that that even the voice tone associated with the race isn’t present in most cases.

Do number one

Asking her out for a date. Make sure that she likes the idea of the date. Think of some particular things she would enjoy to do together or places to go together. Another important point is that during the date, you have to forget about the annoying feeling that you should act some certain way because of her race. Remember that doesn’t matter at all – act like with any other girl you dated before.

Do number two

Or making decent compliments. All the women like to hear nice words about their appearance, dress, etc. Black women aren’t an exception to this general rule either. They would absolutely like to receive romantic compliments from you. Therefore learn how to strike the right moments in order comment on almost anything you find beautiful about her. But here better make sure that you don’t go too far with compliments and that you both feel comfortable about your relationships.